About Love.
I was looking at yesterday's blog, and the bathrooms were the only thing I didn't finish, but it's a new day, new stuff to do, I will try to do that later.
I'm helping Glen's aide, Scott out today and catching up on his laundry for him, so he can get ready for his vacation. I'm so pleased for him! First vacation in over three years, and he deserves it!
I was on Facebook earlier and I saw on one profile that under relationships it said "complicated". When did a relationship need to be complicated? Either your in one or not!
I understand it's hard to be in one. I have been married for 17 years to a man I adore. The longer we are together the more I love him. Each kiss is like the first, and there I times I think the only thing that will make me feel better is a long hug from him. (Right now I could use one.)
I know I try hard at this marriage as I did with the first. But I am married to someone who appreciates the work I do, and that makes all the difference in the world!
How could I not keep falling for a man who thanks me for making dinner every night? Or notices when I get a big project done? Or will bring me flowers just because...well just because.
How hard is it to have that in your life? How hard is it for you to tell your significant other how happy you are with them in your life? Is it hard to tell your loved one they look good that day? Is it hard to tell them you appreciate them?
My guess is "yes". I was married to a man for 11 years, who NEVER told me he appreciated a thing I did. Never thanked me for a meal I cooked, or anything I ever did for him. And yet I kept trying.
And HE left ME.
I am a moron.
I say that only because I kept trying, over and over, because I made the promise to stay with someone the rest of my life. I was not a bright person!
But things have looked up for a long time, and I keep hoping they keep that way. (Fingers crossed, eyes crossed, toes crossed. LOL)
I'm helping Glen's aide, Scott out today and catching up on his laundry for him, so he can get ready for his vacation. I'm so pleased for him! First vacation in over three years, and he deserves it!
I was on Facebook earlier and I saw on one profile that under relationships it said "complicated". When did a relationship need to be complicated? Either your in one or not!
I understand it's hard to be in one. I have been married for 17 years to a man I adore. The longer we are together the more I love him. Each kiss is like the first, and there I times I think the only thing that will make me feel better is a long hug from him. (Right now I could use one.)
I know I try hard at this marriage as I did with the first. But I am married to someone who appreciates the work I do, and that makes all the difference in the world!
How could I not keep falling for a man who thanks me for making dinner every night? Or notices when I get a big project done? Or will bring me flowers just because...well just because.
How hard is it to have that in your life? How hard is it for you to tell your significant other how happy you are with them in your life? Is it hard to tell your loved one they look good that day? Is it hard to tell them you appreciate them?
My guess is "yes". I was married to a man for 11 years, who NEVER told me he appreciated a thing I did. Never thanked me for a meal I cooked, or anything I ever did for him. And yet I kept trying.
And HE left ME.
I am a moron.
I say that only because I kept trying, over and over, because I made the promise to stay with someone the rest of my life. I was not a bright person!
But things have looked up for a long time, and I keep hoping they keep that way. (Fingers crossed, eyes crossed, toes crossed. LOL)
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